In addition to the drain being installed yesterday, yesterday was moving day.  They have all patients move every month to allow for the room to be completely cleaned.  From the few examples I've seen, that generally means moving to a nicer room, since they can pick the day when the move happens, and so we moved one day early to ensure getting a nicer room.  The new room is at least 50% bigger, and the bed is double the size, and has a huge window sill due to an interesting architecture design that is hard to describe in person, so we'll have to get a picture of it.  If they hadn't done anything with the design, the window would have been facing a wall or maybe a tiny portion of the garden.  But, instead the installed a floor to ceiling mirror diagonally, and then a left-facing window, with a window sill that is probably 6 feet long, and 7 or 8 feet tall.  The result is that there is another "room" that I think with some pillows or blankets, might make for a nice little nook to hang out in behind the bed, so we'll have to try that out.  It probably won't work for Grace, due to all of her connections to the pumps, but I expect the siblings will enjoy it.

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Posted by Jon Daley on March 2, 2024, 7:22 am | Read 648 times | Comments (3)
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The last couple of days have been tough, but today is looking up. At 2:00 this morning, Jon called me to say that her breathing was worse and they were considering bringing her up to the ICU. I called my sister, she prayed for us. 45 minutes later, Jon texted to say that they had increased her oxygen and her breathing was better, so she was not going up to the ICU.
In the morning, Jon discovered that they had actually turned up the wrong oxygen supply, and she was getting the same amount that she had been. So that means that God helped her breathe last night despite the nurse's mistake.
Jon also had a good last rounds conversation with the doctor that he'd been having trouble communicating with. He had some good conversations with nurses about beeping and things, and despite being up partly in the night with the ICU investigation, he got a good amount of sleep. So that is an answer to prayer also.
This afternoon, they put in a drain to her abdomen, and have gotten out a significant amount of fluid so far (I think over 100ccs.) She has been sleeping a lot, so it's hard to know how that's affected her, except that it seems like sleeping peacefully is probably a good thing and that she's more comfortable.
Today is also the day of official engraftment! Her ANC was up to 700 today. Yesterday, there was one reading that was 480, but because they took another reading that was over 500 it still counted, so today is the third day.
Please continue to pray for wisdom about her liver, as we're still not sure what's going on with that.
I've had a lovely time at home, including many conversations, a game of Wingspan, and a beautiful hymn sing. I'll be bringing Faith back down with me in the morning.
Grammy is staying with Grace tonight, Jon is sleeping at the apartment. Grammy helped him pack up the old room and set up the new room. Every 30 days, they need to do a whole thorough room cleaning, so we needed to switch rooms. It is bigger than our old room.

Posted by Heather Daley on March 1, 2024, 10:50 pm | Read 1869 times | Comments (8)
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Noah did a good job driving in terrible Boston traffic, but it meant we got home late and I didn't get to talk to Jon for very long last night. The ultrasound revealed that Grace definitely has problems with her liver; she has also been in more pain. By the time I talked to them, she was content sitting and reading books. But her liver definitely could use your prayer. Also, since now that I'm home Jon is at the hospital by himself, he can use your extra prayers. Thank you.
Posted by Heather Daley on February 29, 2024, 6:43 am | Read 375 times | Comments (3)
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The last several days have been back and forth. I’ve started several posts in my head, and then they end up changing. The weekend doctors cancelled the stool studies, then the attending on Monday re-ordered them. Jon had some very frustrating conversations with the doctor, but an encouraging one with the social worker. Also, conversations with nurses and clinical assistants about ratios of pee and poop in potties and diapers. But before they actually put her on precautions, Grace got some time in the morning in the playroom with PT, who was happy with her strength for squatting and getting up and down and reaching.

I also forgot to post this picture of her walking with her shopping cart, from a couple of days ago.

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Posted by Heather Daley on February 28, 2024, 7:52 am | Read 667 times | Comments (10)
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Once again, it was good for me to visit home. This time, I brought Joy back with me. We left later than I meant to, for various reasons (one being the second batch of Victory tshirts came in!) so we had a bit more traffic in Boston than I have yet driven in. It was stressful for Joy, I think, but I am getting used to it.

Grace was so happy to see Joy! They have a secret handshake that in the past Grace has sometimes rather reluctantly done. But this time, she volunteered all the pieces, including the last one, and that made Joy happy, too.

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Posted by Heather Daley on February 24, 2024, 4:09 pm | Read 954 times | Comments (2)
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Please pray for Grace's intestines to heal. The doctor is concerned about her continued diarrhea, and so stopped all formula feeds for a few days. She's getting all her nutrition through IV. She will eat bites of things here and there, but is not really taking things by mouth either. This is expected, but the sooner we can get her back to digesting the normal way, the better.

We are starting to meet other parents on the floor. Several other kids here are not doing as well as Grace, so if you think of it you can pray for them too.

Joy had a good visit. Hopefully I'll get to pictures and a more detailed update soon.
Posted by Heather Daley on February 23, 2024, 9:11 pm | Read 760 times | Comments (2)
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Grace had a great day today. She went out for a walk, wasn't even too upset when Heather left for Hillsboro, waved at everyone as we walked down the hallway.  (She was especially adorable today because she brought a toy vacuum cleaner instead of her normal shopping cart, which is useful for stability as well as bringing things everywhere).  Various staff members thanked her for cleaning up the hallway)

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Posted by Jon Daley on February 20, 2024, 7:52 pm | Read 523 times | Comments (10)
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As of April 8th, we will be home and the information in this post is out of date.

Click here (or see below) for instructions to visit or send us mail.

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Posted by Jon Daley on February 19, 2024, 1:50 pm | Read 685 times | Comments (6)
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Jon wrote today:

When I said it was a "bad day" the other day, a nurse corrected me and said "good moments and bad moments".

This morning was good and she played in the playroom for quite a while. She did throw up after eating. But has continued to ask for food, and hasn't thrown up yet...

She looks brighter than she has been the last few days.  Her white blood cell count has gone up from zero, though the doctor stopped by to chat since we didn't see her this morning.  She said it is common for the white blood cell counts to "flicker" as best as I can figure out, they measure the non-active white blood cells and so if they are out working on healing some area of the body, they don't get counted, so if those 30 get assigned to go work tomorrow, her count could go "down" but that isn't mean anything bad.

So, in short, it is possible this is a turnaround, but it might go up and down for a little while still.

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Posted by Heather Daley on February 18, 2024, 8:40 pm | Read 370 times | Comments (7)
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Grace had a fever overnight so Saturday morning they gave her Tylenol. She seemed a bit better, happier. She even gave me some smiles.

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Posted by Heather Daley on February 18, 2024, 9:25 am | Read 1484 times | Comments (5)
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Grace has been in pain and sleeping a lot. These are the hardest days when her counts are low before Faith's cells take hold.

I've been home and that's been good. It's hard to be away from Grace when she's suffering, but I know she's in good hands with Daddy. And it's been good to be with the other kids.

Pray for engraftment soon and endurance for Grace in the meantime.
Posted by Heather Daley on February 16, 2024, 1:46 pm | Read 414 times | Comments (8)
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I walked home late Monday night, because there was supposed to be this big snowstorm. Jeremiah was already asleep, sprawled all over the bed. In the morning, it was only raining Jeremiah and I had leftover pizza for breakfast, and we walked to the hospital in the rain.

The nurses and child life had gotten Jeremiah a poster and some balloons, so that was fun. We also had some birthday stuff in a package from a friend.

He played with Grace in the hallway until somebody told him he wasn't allowed to be in the hallway. Grace enjoyed being out there again.

However, then it was time to put in the NG tube. As per usual, she did a great job. But she really doesn't like having it in. Her nose runs, and it moves when she swallows. She threw up once, the first time she ate something with it in. But after that she was able to eat.

Her temperature is slightly elevated, but not quite a fever level. Her blood pressure is also slightly elevated, and overnight her magnesium levels were low. She slept all the way through like usual, but now she's just cuddling in my lap. She is not feeling very well, not feeling like herself.

Jon and Jeremiah are planning a surprise for me that they're going to bring over from the apartment. Then Jeremiah and I will go home. Hopefully I'll be able to get a nap, since I woke up to lots of beeping throughout the night.

Posted by Heather Daley on February 14, 2024, 7:45 am | Read 2234 times | Comments (9)
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Day +4

Grace has not thrown up at all today! She even had an episode where she ate too much macaroni at once, and was able to spit it out without actually throwing up.

She does have evidence of the mucositis in her intestines, and a little bit in her mouth, but that part is doing pretty well. They are planning on putting in an NG tube tomorrow, so that she can start getting good nutrition. She will be able to eat even with it in, so she can try as much as she wants. Then they'll be able to give her meds through the NG tube, and any extra nutrition that she can't get in by mouth. They like to put in the NG tube after it's evident that she's not getting enough nutrition but before the mucositis is so bad that it hurts too much to put the tube in.

Yesterday I was feeling like, "Well, that was an adventure. Now can we go home?"

It was hard for me to see Jon for a little bit yesterday, and then have to say goodbye again. But he and Jeremiah are coming tonight, so I will see them tomorrow on Jeremiah's birthday!

I'm working on a plan for self-care. It does really have to be deliberate, because it's impossible to get it in if you don't think about it. I visited the roof garden last night, and that's nice. My plan is, the next time a volunteer comes in and says would you like me to watch Grace so you can go do something, I'm going to go up to the roof garden.
Posted by Heather Daley on February 12, 2024, 6:08 pm | Read 1244 times | Comments (4)
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Days +2 and +3 have been full of desire for eating but not the ability to keep it down. Also, bare bottom and oxygen blowing has been keeping the diaper rash from getting worse, and it might even be a bit better.  She has lots of diarrhea.  She has been sleeping a lot. She had a dressing change today and there is a bit of irritation where the tube leaves the dressing.  The nurse moved the tube for the new dressing, and hopefully that will heal up.

Faith is steadily improving and is planning on going home with Jon tonight.  I'm pretty tired.  There was an alley party last night, which thankfully did not wake Faith.  But it did wake me. Today is Jon's birthday.  This year, our February birthdays will be quite different from normal. He was able to go to Park Street Church this morning, which was good. 

Posted by Heather Daley on February 11, 2024, 2:23 pm | Read 1104 times | Comments (7)
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Faith steadily improved throughout the day as she slept through most of it and has now transferred to our Boston apartment. She got a present (mailed to Grace at the hospital) so that was fun.

Grace's diaper rash did not get worse overnight, and without oral meds, she ate well and did not throw up. She was in a good mood most of the day. She was also extra pink with Faith's cells flowing through her.

She has started getting some sores on her tongue and the inside of her lips. She also has diarrhea.

I was thankful for her two hour nap because I'm very tired. It was good to get a nap. Jon came in and out, being with me and Grace, or Faith, or doing laundry. I visited Faith's room for a short time before dinner.

I zoomed with the home kids and got one online game in.

Now I'm at the apartment with Faith and Jon's at the hospital with Grace.

Goodnight, faithful friends.
Posted by Heather Daley on February 9, 2024, 9:41 pm | Read 1046 times | Comments (5)
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