At our church's marriage retreat last weekend, we got a copy of "Innocent Pleasures" by David Powlinson, an article that was in the fall issue of The Journal of Biblical Counseling.I finished reading it this morning and found it to be quite good. David spoke of the evil and glory of little pleasures in our lives.
The evil is that the "little" pleasures can become a snare, and take up more time, thought, money, etc. than they should. He had a general list of how to telll if a "pleasure" is a bad thing: being obsessive/obsessed, impulsive, compulsive, cancerous and mutant. He had a good contrasting example between Brave New World, where people are controlled by what they love, and 1984, where people are controlled by what they hate. I haven't read either of those, and perhaps I should, but I think I understood his point. (which is longer than what I wrote here)
In case you think he has gone off the deep end, he writes, "this article is not a rant against the media or hedonism or eroticism or sports or all the other ways it is possible to amuse oneself to death. Christian truth cuts against the grain of a culture by offering something better."
He speaks of how the "bad" pleasures have a cycle of diminishing returns where true pleasures, "work in exactly the opposite way as the addictive cycle. It takes less and less to push the lever of joy. Less stimulus is needed for greater joy. Joy is the gift of God, one of the small kindnesses of grace in action."
He speaks of the glories on the little pleasures and describes a couple people who have learned to glory in what God has given them; he speaks of an elderly grandmother who, "witness[ess] intense pleasures: a certain slant of sun across the maple tree and splashing onto the kitchen floor, a cup of Earl Grey tea resting ont he tablecloth, the pattern on the teacup, the curve of the handle, the feel of the cup's rim on her lips, the familiar aroma delighting her as if she experiencing it for the first time. And when her three-year-old granddaughter runs into the room, she feels a pure joy like paradise.
There is much more that could be said, but you could go read the 14 pages yourself too, though I am not sure if you can find the article online or not.
Posted by Jon Daley on January 17, 2006, 12:59 pm | Read 18406 times
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I love the idea of true pleasures working in an opposite way from the addictive cycle. And for an example of someone getting great joy out of small pleasures, watch Jonathan -- or watch his parents watching Jonathan. :)
Posted by SursumCorda on January 18, 2006, 6:55 am

Hmmm, maybe I should read the article. Your post has sparked some interesting thinking. Right now I am remembering one of the places I used to live. At the time we were at the far end of the developed area, and beyond us were woods and fields. That provided many, many "little pleasures." In the winter, skating and playing on a wetland area -- you couldn't even call it a pond, just a low area in the woods that sometimes held water. You couldn't skate more than a few feet without having to navigate trees and rocks and grass hummocks, but no child today on a perfect skating rink could possibly have more fun than we did. Then there were the sounds and silences of winter in the woods, delights free to anyone willing to don boots and take a walk. Spring brought the joys of running water -- few pleasures can equal the sound free-running snow melt after a long winter. In the field there were two, well I suppose people would call them eyesores today. Two pits that had been dug by the developer to provide fill dirt for his construction. But they were reasonably safe and available for the neighborhood children to play in, to climb and slide down, to expore, to dig and to build in, the ultimate sand box! There was all of nature to explore and observe; one of my greatest memories is of hikes there with my father, learning about snake grass and horsetail, listening for birds, having long talks about anything and everything. Come to think of it, these were not "little pleasures" at all, but enormous ones. Even the memories are.
Posted by SursumCorda on January 19, 2006, 8:01 am

Heather could probably send you the article after she reads it. I think the journal is a subscription-based thing.
Posted by jondaley on January 19, 2006, 8:25 am
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